Hey say men are turned on by what they see, and women by what they hear.
But is that really true
Is attraction, for men, really all about looks?
Ok, yes – there will always be certain men out there looking for their next “trophy” girlfriend, guys who prize women based on their curves rather than their conversation skills.
But high-value men are desperate for a woman with “long-term qualities,” that rare find who shows the potential for emotional connection and true partnership.
They also become positively addicted to a woman who knows how to say certain phrases that trigger his attraction, prime his ego, and make him feel masculine and sexy.
Sure, we all want to be with someone who takes care of her or himself and puts some effort into their appearance, but ultimately the cliche is true: Looks aren’t everything.
I’ve worked with thousands of women on my live retreats. You’d be shocked to know how many stunningly beautiful women come to me looking for strategies to keep a guy, because physical appearance alone may get them attention, but it doesn’t get them long-term commitment.
It goes both ways: Have you ever gone on a date with a hot guy who said something ridiculous like, “I hate reading books,” and you lost all attraction for him right on the spot?
I rest my case.
The good news is, if you’re not a Victoria’s Secret supermodel (or even if you are!), I’m going to reveal 5 key facts about what men want, and show how you can communicate those magic “masculinity-boosting” phrases in a way that makes them irresistibly attracted to you and only you(no matter how many “visually beautiful” women they might see in a day)…
5 Qualities Men Want in a Woman
(Much More Than Good Looks)
1. Men want to feel able to protect you
It’s not about how big his biceps are; it’s about how much he feels he can take care of you.
Maybe that sounds a little weird, but basically, even if a guy knows that you’re more than capable of taking care of everything in your own life, he still loves to hear you say to him, “I feel so safe around you” or, “You really know how to take care of me.”
2. Men want to know you think about them
We all love knowing that we’re in the thoughts of the person we love, and men are no different.
If you come home and say to him, “I was telling Jennifer today what a wonderful man I have. She was complaining about her boyfriend and I started thinking how lucky I am to have someone like you,” he’ll immediately think of you in a more loving way.
Knowing that you talk about him in this way is a HUGE turn-on for guys. Of course, you only do this with a guy you’re already seeing, but when you do you can guarantee he’ll remember it.
3. Men want to hear you believe in them
What men want more than just about anything from their girlfriend is… faith.
Faith in him. Faith that he can get it done. Faith that he can move mountains if he sets his mind to it.
A man is dying to hear the words, “I believe in you.” Next time he gets excited telling you about his big plans, say to him, “If anyone can do it, you can.”
By doing this you instantly put yourself in the category in his head of woman whom I cannot live without.
4. Men want to be able to care for you
Not all the time (because that’s just annoying), but sometimes, a guy just wants to be able to be the one you go to when you need putting back together again. Even saying something as simple as, “Your hugs always make me feel like everything will be ok” can be enough to make him feel needed.
Warning though: This only works if you are confident and strong as a person most of the time. A guy has no desire to take care of someone who always plays the “broken woman” who needs piecing back together.
Which leads me to my final point…
5. Men want to hear that you have self-belief
People mistakenly think that confidence is only a sexy trait in men. But it works both ways. Men love seeing a woman who is comfortable sexually, who believes in herself, and who takes charge of her own life.
Try, “Your support means everything to me, babe, but I’ve got this.”
What men want is to see their woman going out in the world and embracing her own independence; just as long as you show him that you want him with you on the way!
I know what you’re thinking…
“Fine, Matthew, I’m relieved that men don’t simply care about looks. But understanding men is still complicated and overwhelming!”
I’ve curated years of my very best research and groundbreaking insights and boiled them down to create a practical, quick-start handbook that gets deep inside the male mind to give you raw, truthful, and 100% unfiltered answers to your top questions about how men think…
… and gets you rapid results during those crucial first few weeks and months of dating where everything you say and do can determine whether your guy commits to you… or sets his sights on another woman.
It’s called “What Men Want: 7 Secrets to Pull Him Closer Instead of Pushing Him Away,” and you can download it instantly by going here.
In “What Men Want,” I reveal exactly what makes a woman irresistibly attractive to men. And it has nothing to do with physical appearance.
It’s a formula, actually, and it’s something any woman can learn. Put this formula into practice and you’ll have more attraction from guys than you know what to do with.
The results, are nothing short of beautiful 😉
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