I’m sure you’ve devoured the dozen copy-and-paste scripts and are already using them to flirt your way to a red-hot connection with any guy you choose.

SO… let’s begin:

#1 Thing to Never Say to a Guy:

You ask him a question about a part of his life that’s important to him like, for example, his work.

He says, “Oh… I don’t know…I started an organisation that empowers women in their love lives.”

And you say, “Aww, that’s so cute.”

No man wants to hear that an area of his life that he takes seriously is cute.

#2 Thing to Never Say to a Guy:

“You’re so funny when you dance.”

Guys have a difficult enough time doing anything elegant like dancing in a way that looks cool, so telling him that he looks funny when he does it is just going to make him feel like he can’t express himself around you in fun and spontaneous ways.

All it’s going to do is shut him down. And, lastly…


#3 Thing to Never Say to a Guy:

He says he hasn’t seen/done something or doesn’t know something that’s slightly embarrassing not to know.

For example, you’re talking about movies, and he says:

“I’ve never seen Pulp Fiction.”

Instead of going, “Oh really? You haven’t watched it? WE should watch it sometime! It’s so great,” you go…

“REALLY? Are you JOKING? You’ve NEVER seen Pulp Fiction??”

Instead of feeling cool and connected to you right now, he just feels like an idiot.

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The great irony in all of these examples is that they’re sort of teasing a guy, but they’re doing it in the wrong way.

Teasing is an incredibly powerful form of flirting. It might be one of THE most powerful forms of flirting when done right.

It’s for that very reason that when I created How to Talk to Men – which you may know is my highest selling program on attraction of all time – I dedicated an entire chapter to teasing as one of the great forms of flirting.